Q:

Hi there. I met this guy who is 3 years younger than me. We met at a place that offers spiritual upliftment here in south Africa. I THINK he likes me…When we’ve spoken its only been neutral and related to the above and nothing else personal. I think he likes me because I noticed he dressed differently the 1 time,even looked jealous when another guy was speaking to me…I know this is all circumstantial, but when I said I would no longer be attending for the spiritual upliftment he called me and tried to give me alternative dates to suit me…like he didn’t want me to leave? I told him I would contact him if need be in a text message and he hasn’t responded to that.. Anyways I find myself thinking about him a lot. I thought about texting him as an excuse for when we will be celebrating a religious holiday. I just want to keep in touch with him. if he really likes me he should contact me anyways right? shall I text him or leave things as they are?

A:

I think you should definitely try to text him and find excuses to see him on a regular basis. The more you interact with him, the more it will become clear whether he likes you or not. Remember to tastefully flirt with him but make sure he’s the one who makes the moves. At this point of the game is best to not come out and be the one pursuing the relationship. Generally men like to be the ones chasing after the women, otherwise it’s  a turn off. Good luck.