He “kind of likes me”
My ex & I broke up because we couldn’t see each other anymore. Now he tells me that he kind of likes me? Is he just saying that cause he is sorry that he broke up with me or do you think he means it? (more…)
How to successfully reject a guy
My girlfriend and I are internet dating. I have done it before in the past so I have a little experience in this landmine of liars.
Here is the question: How do you say after texting and/or calling someone; I’ve decided for whatever reason NOT to meet you. I’m not interested.
Ex: text ” I’m sorry but I don’t think we are a match and I wish you the best in your search” ( being careful NOT to say “good luck” as that might sound mean) As a women I had rather get a no thanks note than have someone disappear. Some guys get the text and freak out and get mean etc. I realize no one wants to be rejected but we all will at some point…
So what’s the best “no thanks on the meeting you after all “? (more…)
Physical Attraction vs. Emotional Attraction
When it comes to men, physical attractions vs. emotional attractions are two completely different worlds. Men by nature are physical people, we like to look at things that attract us and that’s why you girls constantly catch us looking away. So, that’s a fact and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s like telling an elephant not to eat peanuts; it’s just not going to happen. If you think that your man doesn’t look away you are wrong and delusional. However I do believe that if your man is constantly checking out other women in front of you it’s disrespectful and just not cool. (more…)
What does it mean when a man tells you “I’m confused”?
When a man says the words “I’m confused” after being caught red-handed, he’s basically trying to say “I don’t want to be with you anymore.” He just wants to test you and see if you are willing to put up with his infidelities. Of course most man that cheats wishes they never get caught and when they do they try to talk their way out of it. Saying “I’m confused” is basically saying “let me think about this, because I really don’t want to be with you anymore but let me grow the balls to just say it.” (more…)
I hate my husband’s family
I am in my mid-40s and have been married for four years. On top of all the marital difficulties we’re having, my husband insists that I have dinner with his parents every Sunday, as well as every anniversary, birthday and holiday. The truth is, I don’t really like his family, and I can only take them in small doses. They are loud, argumentative and mean.
I make it a point to accompany my husband every few weeks or so, and we spend every holiday with them. Today, my husband announced that his parents’ anniversary and his father’s birthday are coming up and that if I don’t attend “we’re through.”
I was shocked by this ultimatum. I feel it is a complete betrayal of our marriage that he would back me into a corner like this. Spending time with his parents is very hard on me. They are very abrasive and critical, and I always leave feeling sad. My own parents are both deceased. This makes it even more difficult for me. We did things so differently in my family. Getting together was pleasurable and not something one “had to do.” What can I do? (more…)
